A South African man surprised nine men robbing his home. Eight of the robbers ran away, but the homeowner managed to shove one into his backyard pool. After realizing the robber couldn't swim, the homeowner jumped in to save him. The Cape Times reports that once out of the pool, the wet thief called to his friends to come back. Then he pulled a knife and threatened the man who had just rescued him.

The homeowner said "We were still standing near the pool and when I saw the knife I just threw him back in. But he was gasping for air and was drowning. So I rescued him again. I thought he had a cheek trying to stab me after I had just saved his life."1

Some people just don't know how or when to say "thank you"!
Paul writes in Philippians 4:6, "in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving , present your requests to God."

A South African man surprised nine men robbing his home. Eight of the robbers ran away, but the homeowner managed to shove one into his backyard pool. After realizing the robber couldn't swim, the homeowner jumped in to save him. The Cape Times reports that once out of the pool, the wet thief called to his friends to come back. Then he pulled a knife and threatened the man who had just rescued him.

The homeowner said "We were still standing near the pool and when I saw the knife I just threw him back in. But he was gasping for air and was drowning. So I rescued him again. I thought he had a cheek trying to stab me after I had just saved his life."1

Some people just don't know how or when to say "thank you"!
Paul writes in Philippians 4:6, "in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving , present your requests to God."
Note the qualifier at the beginning of the sentence, in everything.
That means we don't just say thank you to God when we are pleased with how life is going, but that we offer thanks to God in all our circumstances. Being able to offer thanks to God when we are in difficulty or in pain is an act of faith and may be the most important gift you can give to God.
To be able to remain thankful requires that we can lift our eyes off our immediate problems and focus them on the source of our life and our hope beyond our problems.

To be thankful to God in all circumstances is a way of acknowledging:
1. That God is good as well as sovereign.
2. That God's purposes for us are good, even when that is not evident.

You ask, "and how am I supposed to be thankful when life is falling apart at the seams? Am I supposed to thank God for that?"
Thanking God for our troubles no, but thanking God in our troubles, yes, most definitely.
William Barclay says,
It is only when we are fully convinced that God is working all things together for good that we can really feel to Him the perfect gratitude which believing prayer demands.2

Paul practiced what he preached.

The Apostle Paul spent roughly one quarter of his missionary career in prisons. John McRay wrote in Christian History:

Roman imprisonment was preceded by being stripped naked and then flogged?a humiliating, painful, and bloody ordeal. The bleeding wounds went untreated as prisoners sat in painful leg or wrist chains. Mutilated, bloodstained clothing was not replaced, even in the cold of winter.

Most cells were dark, especially the inner cells of a prison, like the one Paul and Silas inhabited in Philippi. Unbearable cold, lack of water, cramped quarters, and sickening stench from few toilets made sleeping difficult and waking hours miserable. Because of the miserable conditions, many prisoners begged for a speedy death. Others simply committed suicide. 3

Now hear how Paul and Silas handled their imprisonment in Philippi:

The crowd joined in the attack against Paul and Silas, and the magistrates ordered them to be stripped and beaten. After they had been severely flogged, they were thrown into prison, and the jailer was commanded to guard them carefully. Upon receiving such orders, he put them in the inner cell and fastened their feet in the stocks. About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them. (Acts 16: 22-25)

What happened next was that God caused an earthquake which sprung open the prison doors, but Paul and Silas did not try to escape. In a way they didn't need to escape because they were already free. Their attitude of joy and thankfulness was a reflection of the fact that they knew they were always in the palm of God's hand no matter where they were and no matter what happened to them. And in the palm of God's hand, they were always free.

Being thankful opens a window to God even in the darkest places.
Bitterness, anger and resentment keep us cut off and isolated.
Prayer with thanksgiving sets us free even while we wait for God's reply.

Catherine Marshall writes in her book,  "Touching the Heart of God",

My friend Marge had an experience aboard a plane bound for Cleveland, waiting for takeoff. As she settled into her seat, Marge noticed a strange phenomenon. On one side of the airplane a sunset suffused the entire sky with glorious color. But out of the window next to her seat, all Marge could see was a sky dark and threatening, with no sign of the sunset.

As the plane's engines began to roar, a gentle Voice spoke within her.

"You have noticed the windows, ...Your life, too, will contain some happy, beautiful times, but also some dark shadows. Here's a lesson I want to teach you to save you much heartache and allow you to 'abide in Me' with continual peace and joy."

"You see, it doesn't matter which window you look through; this plane is still going to Cleveland. So it is in your life. You have a choice. You can dwell on the gloomy picture. Or you can focus on the bright things and leave the dark, ominous situations to Me. I alone can handle them anyway. The final destination is not influenced by what you see and hear along the way."

"Learn this, act on it and you will be released, able to experience the 'peace that passes understanding.'"4

Giving thanks produces a deeply powerful effect; one that is is critical to our relationship with God.
Giving thanks takes our eyes off ourselves and focuses them on the fact of God's goodness.
Egocentricity is the root of our problems, with all respect to James.

In the garden, the first temptation was to taste of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.
In other words that means to find out good and bad for yourself, not just trusting God's guidance on what is safe and what is not. The reason why they were tempted was because the serpent sewed a thought in their minds. That thought was,

"Ah, but God has something better than what He is sharing with us. We don't have all the good things we could have. God is holding out on us. We are being short-changed!"

When the man and the woman took their focus off God's goodness to them and started getting into the attitude of  "poor me" they became focused on self. At that point they were on thin ice, and it was just one step further till they fell through.

The reverse is true.
When we get our focus off ourselves and onto God's goodness, we step from thin ice back into the safe keeping of God.

Today we celebrate at the Lord's table, and our celebration is in part a giving thanks for God's gift of eternal life.
Before you come to the table today, in our time of quiet reflection, first confess any unforgiven sin in your life, including bad attitudes about life. Call a spade a spade and acknowledge them as sinful. Ask for forgiveness, then receive it from God.
The final act of prayer before we take the elements is to quietly give thanks to God for all the God has done for you.
Remember that there is a vast amount that God has done for you that you don't even know about, or overlook.
Be thankful and remember God's kindness ultimately by sending Jesus to die in our place so that we could be free.

Norman Wright, a prolific author and Christian psychologist and theologian wrote in his book, " The Perfect Catch"

There is an old legend about three men and their sacks. Each man had two sacks, one tied in front of his neck and the other tied on his back. When the first man was asked what was in his sacks, he said, "In the sack on my back are all the good things friends and family have done. That way they're hidden from view. In the front sack are all the bad things that have happened to me. Every now and then I stop, open the front sack, take the things out, examine them, and think about them." Because he stopped so much to concentrate on all the bad stuff, he really didn't make much progress in life.

The second man was asked about his sacks. He replied, "In the front sack are all the good things I've done. I like to see them, so quite often I take them out to show them off to people. The sack in the back? I keep all my mistakes in there and carry them all the time. Sure they're heavy. They slow me down, but you know, for some reason I can't put them down."

When the third man was asked about his sacks, he answered, "The sack in front is great. There I keep all the positive thoughts I have about people, all the blessings I've experienced, all the great things other people have done for me. The weight isn't a problem. The sack is like sails of a ship. It keeps me going forward.

"The sack on my back is empty. There's nothing in it. I cut a big hole in its bottom. In there I put all the bad things that I can think about myself or hear about others. They go in one end and out the other, so I'm not carrying around any extra weight at all."5

Isn't it time you emptied your sack of negativity toward others, toward past hurts, toward life just not turning out the way you wanted? Then cut a hole in that sack of sadness and anger. Cut the hole by giving thanks to God for being bigger than your problems, and for holding you in the palm of his hand.

Prayer: Lord we offer you our thanks today. For some of us, there is much that we hold onto that is dragging us down.
We give you thanks in spite of it all  because we know you are bigger than it all, and your great sacrifice opens a door to freedom from it all. Thank you Lord.  In Jesus name. Amen

Preached
Dr. Harold McNabb
West Shore Presbyterian Church
Victoria, British Columbia

Notes
1.Kashiefa Ajam, "Homeowner Threatened by the Robber He Saved," The Cape Times (3-23-04
) quoted in PreachingToday.com
2. William Barclay, "Letters to Philippians, Colossians Thessalonians", The Daily Study Bible, Saint Andrew Press,
    1973, p. 96
3.
Elesha Coffman, Christian History Connection (6-1-02), from Christian History (issue 47)
4. Catherine Marshall, "Touching the Heart of God," Christianity Today (
5-15-95)
5.
H. Norman Wright, The Perfect Catch (Bethany House, 2000), pp.28-29, quoted in PreachingToday.com